3 Mei 2010
As time advanced, the more it cewek2 who live independently. More and more cewek2 a smart, intelligent, highly educated n. As in the science of demography, it is evident that education is delaying the age of first marriage. Yup! If a woman is usually married before the age of 16 years, then the school is higher then the reduction in the desire to get married. So they decided to get married at a more mature age.
Well, a phenomenon that I observe myself, if a girl had no activity (meaning not the school let alone not have a job), then he does not have yet another reason not to marry. Automatically n instinct, that person would choose to marry. In addition to ease parents because there has been a bear necessities of life (if indeed it should be so, but it is not uncommon that is still troubling her parents). Yes, if not married, let alone that awaited her if marriage itself has come in sight? Not the intention but I think that's the narrow reality of life.
In the discussion this time I want to discuss about the self. So, what is the definition of independent? If called self as 'bathing themselves' as kata2 people who like to joke, I really pikir2 really. Where it can be called independent if a shower by myself and can not? hehe: p
Self is not always synonymous with a 'can do everything by myself'. At least, that's the definition according to gw. The figure was an independent figure who does not like to bother other people. If something that he can do yourself, why should ask for help from others right? However, because too often n've become a habit to do everything alone, be lama2 others think such a person does not need sapa2 again. Whereas normally, where there is such a thing? How strong she is, right? If indeed ga need anyone else again, why ga
living alone in the woods aja ato on another planet right? Due to the still life on earth, so-called 'man' which is actually social creatures who can not live without other people, so, understand that basically there is no woman who could own everything. Women with everything he had (as smart as strong as any), would still need other people really.
If in a relationship, it could be cewek2 was reluctant to reveal what needs to be assisted. Could be because:
1. fear of rejection,
2. not used to it so that it occurred is it true Pls i ask for his help?,
3. prestige so that the mouth is hard to say, and so on.
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